Column A
|
Column B
|
| Have
truth as an objective. |
Have
harmony as a goal. |
| Decide
more with my head. |
Decide
more with my heart. |
| Question
others' findings, because they might be wrong. |
Agree
more with others' findings, because people are worth
listening to |
| Notice
ineffective reasoning. |
Notice
when people need support. |
| Choose
truthfulness over tactfulness |
Choose
tactfulness over truthfulness. |
| Deal
with people firmly, as needed |
Deal
with people compassionately. |
| Expect
world to run on logical principles. |
Expect
the world to recognize individual differences. |
| Note
pros & cons of each option. |
Note
how an option has value and how it affects people. |
| Feelings
valid if they're logical. |
ANY
feeling is valid. |
| See
others' flaws. |
Like to please others;
show appreciation. |
| Tolerate
occasional queries as to my emotional state in
relationships |
Appreciate frequent
queries as to my emotional state. |