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Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 5:18pm
Hello,

Those who remember my posts might know that I haven't been the most compliant person...
That I'm an "all or nothing" type of person and that I've not followed my Swami if I knew an upcoming event would prevent me from staying compliant, or let's say it would have been more worth waiting until that event was gone for me to start.

Well here we go, with Christmas and my birthday over, I have no more excuses to be gorging on all the avoids I could possibly find and I'm starting the diet, aiming to be 100% compliant during the wash out period.

I will also try to post daily to keep this as an incentive to stay compliant.

Sooo I'm on day 2 of the diet and I have to say that eating good compliant food makes you more fulfilled than any junk food you could eat. Also the knowledge that I'm doing something good for my body is really motivating.

So hoping to keep on that note and I'll post tomorrow to update on my doing.
Posted by: Chloe, Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 5:29pm; Reply: 1
welcome back, Xuxuzinha....Yes, I remember you posting before the holidays...your all or nothing personality........waiting for holidays and your birthday to be over.

Wishing you the best of luck starting over....

....Let us know if you need any help!  :)
Posted by: Lola, Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 5:48pm; Reply: 2
:)
Posted by: ruthiegirl, Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 11:11pm; Reply: 3
Welcome back!
Posted by: Tom Martens, Tuesday, January 28, 2014, 11:40pm; Reply: 4
:)
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Wednesday, January 29, 2014, 2:30pm; Reply: 5
Soooooo,

Day 3, still 100% compliant, although I exceeded my daily allowance of bread and weekly allowance of poultry yesterday :-)

I would love to lose some weight as well, but I'd rather cheat on the recommended portions than eat avoids.

It's funny how after only 3 days I already feel so much better! I'm not feeling tired anymore all day long. This definitely motivates me, as the benefits will only increase  with time :-)
Posted by: ruthiegirl, Wednesday, January 29, 2014, 2:57pm; Reply: 6
I wouldn't worry overly much about the portions for the first week or two. Get your  body adapted to the right foods (and off the "avoids") and then you can do the fine-tuning. You may find yourself naturally eating "the right amounts" as your appetite adjusts to the new diet. If it doesn't happen naturally, you can focus on portion control at that time.

For now, aim to get enough fruits and veggies, rather than thinking about "keeping meat and grain portions down." Focus on what you CAN eat. Once you're eating all the produce you should be eating, there's less room for meats and carbs.
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Thursday, January 30, 2014, 9:46am; Reply: 7
Day 4 and I never felt better!

Yesterday I didn't feel tired for the first time in a long time! I kept going till 9 pm when I first started to feel tired :-)

I felt weird though last night, I came home and just wanted to eat and feel really full. I wasn't necessarily craving avoids, I just wanted to eat loads of comfort food.

I also felt sort of depressed and angry, like I was in a really bad mood. Anyone had that a few days after going compliant?
Posted by: ABJoe, Thursday, January 30, 2014, 3:09pm; Reply: 8
Quoted from Xuxuzinha
I felt weird though last night, I came home and just wanted to eat and feel really full. I wasn't necessarily craving avoids, I just wanted to eat loads of comfort food.

I also felt sort of depressed and angry, like I was in a really bad mood. Anyone had that a few days after going compliant?

You may have all sorts of "old" emotions / pains as the body clears stored toxins.  Each of these occurrences is called a healing crisis.  Just stay compliant by looking for beneficial foods to replace the food being craved.  Usually there is something (nutrient or food type) that the body is looking for / needing, so finding a "good for you" replacement is the key.
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Friday, January 31, 2014, 10:05am; Reply: 9
Mmmh, makes sense.

I've decided to go as Ruthie recommended, not to dwell too much on portions at the beginning, so I don't feel proper frustated...

Soooo Day 5!!!! I'm feeling tired today, despite having had enough sleep.
But I'm really motivated this time as I enjoy the thought of doing something good for my body.

Week end is coming up, these have been the most difficult to get through as per my experience in the past. I considered go out and celebrate the Chinese New Year here, but it will be too tempting with all the food around... I think staying home will be safest.
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Monday, February 3, 2014, 9:46am; Reply: 10
Day 6 and 7: I had a set back, pretty much as expected...
Friday night I was so hungry and not bothered to cook, since I hate cooking in general, that I had some fries and a sausage...

I did think that this wouldn't mean I had to gorge on avoids the whole week end, but I kinda did, thinking "I'll start afresh on Monday".... As I do pretty much every week end...

Anyway, even so, eating compliant food 5 days out of 7 is still better than none.

I think I get into this frustating "diet" pattern when I try to go through the washout period, knowing I'm not allowed any avoid... And I just crave the forbidden food.

I might be much more compliant if I was allowed the odd avoid now and then, but then the wash out period would not be much efficent...

Anyway, I'll keep trying, thinking every day spent without avoids is a win.
Posted by: shoulderblade, Monday, February 3, 2014, 12:52pm; Reply: 11
Quoted from Xuxuzinha

Friday night I was so hungry and not bothered to cook, since I hate cooking in general, that I had some fries and a sausage...

I think this is going to be a major obstacle in your goal of ongoing compliance. If you are able to cook up tasty meals on your own it makes it much easier to avoid slipping into junk-food relapses. Have you considered making up soups or stews to fill in the gaps rather than turning to quick filler?
Posted by: yaeli, Monday, February 3, 2014, 1:40pm; Reply: 12
Quoted from shoulderblade
Have you considered making up soups or stews to fill in the gaps rather than turning to quick filler?
Xuxuzinha,

I'm afraid something basic is unclear here. Avoids are avoids for lifetime, not just for wash out periods. Avoids create a vicious circle withtin the body, because we become dependent on them - we are accustomed to them, we like the way they taste, they have become an integral part of our daily lives, and this is too bad. The reason they are avoids is because they disturb and hinder the natural healing processes that naturally and regularly take place within a healthy body. Avoids just don't let the body perform optimally its healing work, and whenever we add them back, we fall into the same pit again.

To tackle the painful cravings for avoids' comforts we need to devise strategies like the one suggested by Shoulderblade. It is possible to get avoids out of our sight by surrounding ourselves, 'flooding' ourselves with abundance of compliant foods of all kinds, develop easy and quick methods of preparation (like steaming), and plan and see to it that the next meal is always taken care of. This way the tables will turn, and the wheel is going to spin in the direction favorable to us.
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Monday, February 3, 2014, 1:41pm; Reply: 13
I have, I baked a whole batch of muffins on Saturday and cooked some rabbit stew on Sunday. Unfortunately, my freezer is full already!!!

But you're right, I did myself recognise the problem then, I have to be prepared ...
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Monday, February 3, 2014, 2:36pm; Reply: 14
ugggggggggggh! Just had an avoid because it's call differently in British English....
Rapeseed oil is CANOLA oil :-(
Posted by: yaeli, Monday, February 3, 2014, 3:41pm; Reply: 15
:D Oops! Please be forgiving and gentle with yourself and give yourself a chance...

It does take time....

Naturally, as long as you have them around, the odds are that they will find their way into your mouth... a matter of habit  8)
Posted by: deblynn3, Monday, February 3, 2014, 4:15pm; Reply: 16
I didn't drop all my avoids at once, but I'm not a all or nothing person. Can't remember if you said you where. Anyway try not to beat yourself up. I think 5 days of being compliant is a very good start. Use up what you have and replace with something on bene or neutral list. wishing you the best.
Posted by: Xuxuzinha, Monday, February 10, 2014, 3:58pm; Reply: 17
Okay, I spent last week eating avoids, all of that because I accidentally ate an avoid  last Monday....

This is how pathetic I am with my resolutions...

However, I decided to try again from today, as somehow I have to start on a Monday...
Well, at least I'm not giving up. I have been doing well so far, I'm not having any cravings and I even went to buy a compliant salad, as I did not prepare my lunch yesterday.
I'm quite proud of how effortless I surrendered to eating a salad, when Subway and KFC are so close by.. ::)

I will not try to keep to the portions for as long as it takes me not to feel deprived of anything. Thinking of that, I wonder if they're right for me anyway...
Swami asks you how often a week you exercise, but I don't think it takes how long you exercise in consideration.

I know my SWAMI says 40 minutes, but I do twice as much in one session. So since I'm not too bothered about my weight, I'll keep the portions that keep me less frustrated.

All right, hopefully this time is the right one!
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