i can be a terrible flirt with out even meaning too. dose that help?

Well Battle Dwarf, what one does actually is a different matter but my point is more on the biological urge from inside: flirting could well be a safe outlet for deep sensual urges!

maybe, i have 3ed degree (fresh) emtional burns right now. i have always been out going and prefer guys as company to girls. the girls i know around here are all so....girly. i am a natural tom boy and to guys i am usuly "one of the guys". my ex always said i was sexy but i think he was only thinging about his smaller self.    

Same here, Battle Dwarf.  I'm quite the tom boy and have worked hard to "redo" myself in attempt to be a little more feminine.  (Not trying to start an uproar here, I'm just sayin'.)

Kumar, have you ever practised Tantra ....

Amazone, not except during sex acts!

Quoted from Ribbit

Same here, Battle Dwarf.  I'm quite the tom boy and have worked hard to "redo" myself in attempt to be a little more feminine.  (Not trying to start an uproar here, I'm just sayin'.)

This is me, too! Plus I still think I look kind of like a kid (not in a young, good way though).

I think I know about the flirtatious/sexy thing.

There is a - for lack of a better word - charisma that some have that turn heads of the opposite gender (and the same in jealously).   My girlfriend at the age of seventeen had that ability.  She had black hair, blue eyes, and a shortened hourglass figure.  A definite Explorer, she could command the eyes of all males from the age of seven to seventy in the room.  The Explorer Monograph does not do her natural (to her) ability justice by half.  She was not beautiful, but she was somehow magnetic.  The worst slurs were whispered about her (not true), and no young woman had a good word to say about her.

I always thought that she would do great things on stage with that strange power of hers.  I never connected her figure, her charisma, and her loneliness before reading the last part of this thread; a non-secreting explorer.

All I can say about myself is that my pulse will increase even if just a reasonably attractive woman enters the room.

Historically, would extra friskiness and a kindred sympathy that preferentially pairs non-secretors together, account for the non-secretor gene from disappearing?  Do non-secretors have more children on average?

Good food for thoughts Paul! I tend to think along those lines too.

Paul, I'll start a poll and maybe we can see.

Edited:  It seems to me, after I posted the poll, I remember reading that nonnies are usually very fertile.  But I don't know if that's because we emit pheromones and attract the opposite sex.....or if our wombs are just really sticky.

I called my sister on her birthday, and she is still a "tom boy" much like battle dwarf.  Even with two pre-schoolers to care for.

Plays soccer in a men's team twice a week and works out in the gym on other days.  I am confident she is an Explorer given her rangy big boned frame.  She certainly has to exercise to keep the flab off - she told me that herself!  She is in Shanghai now, and has mixed feelings about going back to Stuttgart with the family when her husband's posting in China is over.

I would say that she enjoyed flirting when she was single.  She learned early on how to fend off unwanted male attention.  She is a true extrovert, who is fluent in quite a few languages.

is her husband a German diplomat?

A French Engineer.

There was a tri-lingual wedding and reception English/French/German.  I appreciated the trip to Normandy.

Her ability with modern languages came as a surprise to her in college.  She has a dominant personality that went down quite well teaching German executives how to speak English.

very globalized!

Paul please explain more ..what is meant with hourglass figue... poor lady, I feel really deeply with her....

btw...it's amazing to feel as a neutrum.... ,

Not sure about a shortened hour glass figure... but an hourglass means a curvy "egg timer" shape = very slim waist with accentuated hips & bust...in proportion to each other...

thanx Possum... .. def. not in my case ...... I am merely mesomorphic and andric.... ........ .......

I also wonder what effects a long ring finger in men and a long index finger in women has.

yea i got one of those figures. one of my grannies always said i had a "cute" shape. got a new pc and the board is a bit different. i keep reaching for the back space and hitting the num loc on the kye pad! at lest i am not hitting the finger pad and jumping around the paragraph...yet.

androgen

I look like an inverted pear with toothpick legs and arms.   Oh, well.  DH is happy.

Oh Ribbit the visual... Don't be too hard on yourself

with best regards to all ;)

Habibi ya nour el - my darling you are the....
or better said: Ishtar Alabina:Habibi ya nour el ain



fine to google ;) under ishtar
but difficult to find out ...sorry.... ....but when found... go and let shake your body....(answer to Pauls issues..no ;) ...yeeeeaaaa... ...go..go..gooo..for it...   ;) ....

couldn't get it better but it's a beautiful mix between arab, israelian and gipsy musique... worth to listen and observe.... ;)
this is one of my patterns....nooo this is completely me...yep I've to admit... my culture.. all you can imagine...Yaman...do you understand right now ;) .....
this was for me the Samos meeting with ya.... ooold souls, rememberings  and storries ;)...there were some beautiful pics taken from our discussion....and here this musique begun.... hey I'm talkin from da musique ;) ....