Archives for: June 2013
June was a busy month for us. Leah graduated from high school, as did many of her friends. There were also numerous weddings this month as well- mostly young women a few years older than my daughters whom they know from camp or their youth group- most of these girls were their counselors and mentors, not their peers. Only the girls were invited to the weddings of acquaintances; not the whole family. But one of Leah’s closest friends also got married this month- a girl I knew from the time she was about 13. All 5 of us were invited to this wedding. I can’t believe I’m old enough for my daughters’ friends to be getting married!
The wedding was scheduled for the exact day and time of Leah’s graduation ceremony. After much soul-searching, Leah chose to go to the wedding rather than graduation, so we celebrated her graduation with extended family the Sunday before. Her aunts paid for us to go to a kosher restaurant, and we selected a restaurant that served Middle Eastern food. There were a few salads, several kinds of flavored rice, and we selected kebob trays, family style. Nobody really wanted chicken, which isn’t a good choice for the Bs at the table anyway. So we got lamb, salmon, and two kinds of beef. I tasted everything but the pita bread, and everything was delicious. I’m sure it wasn’t 100% compliant, but it was a very enjoyable afternoon out, and I can afford to eat imperfectly once or twice a year. I’m not likely to eat in another restaurant until we do this again next year for Hannah’s graduation.
Three days later was the wedding. Most of the day was spent getting ready. Hannah had to finish crocheting her gift (bride and groom penguins.) Jack still had school most of the day, and then he had to see if any of the hand-me-down suits actually fit. Leah spent the day preparing little surprises/gag gifts for the bride, to be presented during the dancing. Some of the bride’s other friends presented some silly things to the bride as well. I had to do pick up the veggies from the CSA and then their father from the train station. Things ended up quite stressful the last hour or so before we left. I had to rush my clothing and makeup, and ended up wrapping my own gift to the bride on the car ride there!
All that stress was forgotten once we were there. I ate before heading out to the wedding and packed almonds in my purse, but I managed to find enough safe food to eat that I didn’t touch the almonds at all. Jack had about 7 cups of soda during the evening, but I drank only seltzer and water. I could have had red wine, but found I really didn’t want any. I was too busy dancing to care about much of anything else. We all had a wonderful time- probably a lot more fun than we would have had at the graduation ceremony! It took us all of the next day to recover, and I let Jack miss school the following day. But it was well worth it!
This year, my family joined a CSA- Community Supported Agriculture. In the beginning of the season, we bought a “farm share”, and every week I get to pick up a box of farm-fresh produce. If the harvests are especially good, we’ll get more produce each week. If the harvests are only so-so, we get less produce in the box. We don’t pay extra for the good harvests, nor do we get a refund for the poorer harvests. We’re investing in the farm.
The one we joined comes to about $20 a week and runs for 26 weeks. The farm itself is 50 miles away from us, but the pickup location is only 5 miles away. I pick it up on Wednesday afternoons, and the food is harvested on Wednesday morning- the shares vary slightly for those who pick up on other days of the week, depending on what’s ready that day. The farm sends out emails to tell us what’s in the box each week, so we can do menu planning.
I’m hoping that having fresh produce in the house will encourage my kids to eat more veggies. Jack enjoyed the kale chips I made last week with half the kale we got in the box- I plan to make another batch later today with the rest of it. We also got bok choy in the last box, which I used to make stir-fries. Hannah REALLY enjoyed those stir-fries. I’ll probably make something similar for her with whatever greens we get in this week’s box, as bok choy isn’t in this week’s portion.
The only disadvantage of the CSA is that I have less control over which veggies enter my house. I don’t normally buy bok choy because it’s a “black dot” for me, but I had some this week anyway. It’s organic, grown less than 100 miles from my house, and in limited quantity. I’m going to enjoy it. I even ate one strawberry, even though those are an “avoid” for me. But my kids ate most of both of those. Later in the year, we’ll be getting in things like cabbage and cauliflower, which are “avoids” for me but neutral or beneficial for Jack. I’ll certainly encourage him to eat lots of those foods when we get them- which will be a definite advantage to having this “forced variety” of foods in the house.
A few weeks ago, when I mentioned that the CSA was going to be starting soon, Jack thought it stood for Community Supported Awesomeness. I think he’s right.