Archives for: May 2004, 19
Got an email from 'Stan' earlier this morning in response to my message from last night. I really feel like I dodged a bullet by not getting involved with this one!
Here's what he had to say:
I agree.... Keeping your options open is a sad excuse
for playing the field! I thought you were genuine but
now I see your just having one way and not even
understanding where I am coming from.. It was not a
race, nor do I appreciate your using I was the front
runner, how silly! This is OUR hearts were talking
about and I am and was so very disappointed in
you....We matched VERY well till you said you were
talking with a couple of other guys too...
You made NO effort in setting up a date or making a
notion of meeting, again all about you! It really says
alot when someone whom you connect with makes you out
too be the bad one.. I AM NOT THE ONE WHO KEPT THEIR
OPTIONS OPEN, REMEMBER????? I gave you 100 percent
from the very start.. You cannot say the same thing!
So, do not judge me... And remember..what comes around
will come back and get you as well Casssandra!
I will not entertain anyone who is NOT willing to
search out the absolute truth by really putting ALL
their effort into seeing where it might go... It is a
rare thing when two people connect like we did and you
will see as life passes that YOU were wrong, that I
Your gest is hollow and I feel your a selfish person
definitely.... And that saddens me Cassandra. I guess
my mistake was that I believed in you! I hope you step
back and work on yourself and NOT find anyone right
now.. You need to emotionally and spiritually grow to
understand that people have feelings too and never
make it out to be a race, or contest ; what a horrible
thing too say!!!!
By the way, I never, ever, said excluse anytime,
anywhere! I just said that look into one person at a
time so you could give them 100 percent of your
effort, and time. THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO REALLY KNOW
SOMEONE! Your excuse for this letter is so you feel
like your doing something right. Well, I donnot except
it or you! You lied, and let me down..Actions speak
louder then words always!
Anyhow, I am signing off........
Wow. He has contradicted what he said before, accused me of being selfish, a liar and told me that I need to work on my emotional and spiritual side before I get involved with anyone - all before I've ever MET him.
Makes me grateful I have good instincts and avoided this one!