Got an email from 'Stan' earlier this morning in response to my message from last night. I really feel like I dodged a bullet by not getting involved with this one!

Here's what he had to say:

I agree.... Keeping your options open is a sad excuse

for playing the field! I thought you were genuine but

now I see your just having one way and not even

understanding where I am coming from.. It was not a

race, nor do I appreciate your using I was the front

runner, how silly! This is OUR hearts were talking

about and I am and was so very disappointed in

you....We matched VERY well till you said you were

talking with a couple of other guys too...

You made NO effort in setting up a date or making a

notion of meeting, again all about you! It really says

alot when someone whom you connect with makes you out

too be the bad one.. I AM NOT THE ONE WHO KEPT THEIR

OPTIONS OPEN, REMEMBER????? I gave you 100 percent

from the very start.. You cannot say the same thing!

So, do not judge me... And remember..what comes around

will come back and get you as well Casssandra!

I will not entertain anyone who is NOT willing to

search out the absolute truth by really putting ALL

their effort into seeing where it might go... It is a

rare thing when two people connect like we did and you

will see as life passes that YOU were wrong, that I

promise!

Your gest is hollow and I feel your a selfish person

definitely.... And that saddens me Cassandra. I guess

my mistake was that I believed in you! I hope you step

back and work on yourself and NOT find anyone right

now.. You need to emotionally and spiritually grow to

understand that people have feelings too and never

make it out to be a race, or contest ; what a horrible

thing too say!!!!

By the way, I never, ever, said excluse anytime,

anywhere! I just said that look into one person at a

time so you could give them 100 percent of your

effort, and time. THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO REALLY KNOW

SOMEONE! Your excuse for this letter is so you feel

like your doing something right. Well, I donnot except

it or you! You lied, and let me down..Actions speak

louder then words always!

Anyhow, I am signing off........

Adios,

Stan



Wow. He has contradicted what he said before, accused me of being selfish, a liar and told me that I need to work on my emotional and spiritual side before I get involved with anyone - all before I've ever MET him.

Makes me grateful I have good instincts and avoided this one!